Life Is Not My Hair: Finding Freedom, Confidence & Balance in My Natural Hair Journey
By Lady Carolyn M. Summerset Crowning Glory — Coils & Kinks From the Crowning Glory Archives | Originally Published March 27, 2015 | Refreshed October 2026 Hello, My Beautiful Naturalistas! Ladies, can we talk about something today? Because sometimes, somewhere between wash day, detangling, conditioning, twisting, styling, and trying to achieve that perfect curl definition, we forget one very important thing. Life is not our hair! Now, don't misunderstand me. I love my natural hair! I love the versatility, the beauty, and the freedom of discovering what my curls and coils can do. But goodness gracious, ladies! Sometimes maintaining natural hair can begin to feel like another full-time job! LOL! When I originally wrote this article in March 2015, I had been natural for approximately five years. I had started my journey in March 2010, and even then, I was still learning how to manage my beautiful 3C/4A curls. And you know what? I'm still learning! That's the beauty of th...